“High-masking” Autism and Late Diagnosis
Elizabeth Nolan Elizabeth Nolan

“High-masking” Autism and Late Diagnosis

If you’ve heard the term “high-masking” Autism in your everyday life or on social media, you may be wondering what that means. Typically when people use the term “high-masking” with regard to Autism, they’re referring to people who don’t meet a very specific standard of what society thinks Autism looks like (e.g., they are able to hold a job, have friendships, and appear “successful” in the ways that colonialism/white supremacy/the patriarchy view success). The purpose of this article is to explain what masking is, and offer it as a (partial¹) explanation of how Autism can go undetected for so long – not only to the outside world, but even to the Autistic person themselves.

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What to ask a therapist during your free consultation call
Elizabeth Nolan Elizabeth Nolan

What to ask a therapist during your free consultation call

Starting therapy for the first time ever or for the first time with a new therapist can be overwhelming. This is one reason that so many therapists offer a free consultation call, prior to scheduling the first appointment, to see if you may be a good fit for one another and to answer any questions you have. Below are some questions that can be helpful to ask your potential therapist to get an idea of whether you may be a good fit.

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“Just eat” and 5 other things to not say to someone with an eating disorder

“Just eat” and 5 other things to not say to someone with an eating disorder

Eating disorders are rooted in shame, anxiety, and other uncomfortable emotions - and for a person to share the fact that they’re struggling with an eating disorder with another person is a huge act of vulnerability. The following phrases listed below are common responses that people have when they are told that someone has an eating disorder. While these responses typically are not said with poor intentions, they are actually very harmful.

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